Do you experience these kind of waiting on a regular basis?
I play every day and I never have any problem, Maybe once every second month I get lost connection. It can happen that I see the waiting animation but quite rarely.
Of course being close to the server will give me faster response time but losing connection on a regular basis sounds like we have a problem the needs to be solved by 0.9.
The CPU usage on the server is usually just a few percent and the host is considered to be the number one host here in Sweden so I don't think we can blame them. There must be something we can do to improve performance.
I found a little test code online and added a measure for ping time to it. You test it here and post your results:
http://www.warbarons.com/bandwidth/default.htmI get around 20-40 ms so really fast from here.
When you fight a battle especially a bigger one and when you open the battle report list after playing a bunch of turns (the list is longer) it will download quite a lot of data in version 0.8. I could see that 100 kb download in too uncommon but in version 0.9 I've been able to reduce that to around 2-3 kb at the most so there are some performance improvements. But if you get the waiting problem while moving for example the amount of data sent is really small.