I am playing this game for 2 years 8 months already. I must say I was always shocked by lost 85% battles. But hey this is what allows weaker player to win, and also the point for keep playing after a single losses. It means you can still win.
I am quite sorry that we are losing you .
The only thing I miss here is some global ranking so beginning players can play each other instead of being constantly beaten by warmongers.